The Three Friends
Working in the same building I sometimes would go across the hall to visit my friend Maggie. Sometime in the early 1980's I went to visit her and. Maggie said, "Have you met Maria? She works in the office right next to you." We walked over and she introduced me to a large girl with long, black hair and an accent. As the years passed, our friendship grew. We saw each other daily and shared parts of our lives. A pregnancy, a broken romance, a husband with cancer, employment woes, our travels and many other chit-chats that friends will share. Fun time and sad times, yet our sense of humor, the respect for each other and the love that was growing between us, helped us "make it through the day."
Then, everyone went their separate ways. No longer were we right next door to each other, but the friendship had taken root and it continued even though it was from a distance. A marriage, some cruises, acting lessons, children, grandchildren growing up, discussions about parents and a move out of state.
A yearly Christmas dinner caught everyone up on what was happening in each other's lives. A son in the service, Flamenco lessons, a new grandmother, birthday celebrations, a father's death, job changes and traveling adventures to Mexico, Canada, Florida, California and Europe.
This year, 2003, we will meet again. Even though hair styles will change, a few more wrinkles will have crept in, and depending on the year, some weight gain or loss. We will be more mature and, hopefully more grown up, and the three friends are anxious to catch up, to get filled in, to find out what life has brought each one since the last meeting.
Busy friends, each doing their own thing, yet friends there for each other. Conversations will pick up as if there has been no parting. It will be fun finding out what has happened since the last time we were together. As we gather, we will be transformed into the same laughing girls of years past.
As has become a habit, gifts are exchanged, and it is always fun to be surprised. But, they know that the gift of friendship they share is the most important of all!
Erlinda Moscoso, December 23, 2003
December 11, 2023: Our meetings began to fizzle. I would meet one friend at a time, but it was not the same. Maria lost her husband now lives in New Mexico and her children are adults, Maggie continues in the acting business, and she was in the play, Dairy of Ann Frank, that I went to see, and I keep busy doing things at Spirit of Christ Catholic Community with a new set of friends!

