
The altar was decorated with red and white poinsettias with green boughs for Christmas. In front of the altar were large sprays of flowers in different shapes (crosses) and many floral arrangements. I was attending a funeral for a lady I had met once. At that time she was having people over to pray the rosary for the visiting Fatima statue. I arrived early and she greeted me in broken English and told me she did not speak English "too good." Somehow, we managed to understand each other and the first thing I noticed was how she made me feel at home. I believe she understood English, it was just her trying to express herself that was difficult. Her welcoming spirit and her attempts to communicate were something I have never forgotten. She made me feel as if I was part of her family.

Today I was at her funeral mass. She died at ninety-four years old and from what I heard, she led a busy and active life until the end when she peacefully fell asleep. Her grandchildren spoke at the eulogy and mentioned that she left this world like she wanted. I learned that she attended daily mass regardless of the weather and the priest spoke highly of his parishioner. She was survived by five children, eleven grandchildren, twenty-three great grandchildren and one great-great grandson. One daughter is a nun in Italy and one daughter I got to know when she traveled with me to New Mexico.
A nice and thoughtful touch was Olinger Crown Hill mortuary placed small bottles of water and packages of tissues in all the pews. A video on their web site depicts how the life of this lovely lady was interesting from the time she left Italy and what a blessed life she had with all of her family. My heart was sad that she left her family a few days before Christmas and then I felt better after reading the verse in her memory card.
My First Christmas in Heaven
I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below,
with lights, like Heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away that tear,
for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
but the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
for it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart,
but I am not so far away. We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me dear ones. You know I hold you dear,
and be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I send you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above,
I send you each a memory of my undying love.
After all "love" is the gift, more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do,
for I can't count the blessing or love He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear,
remember, I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
Unknown Writer