Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Colorful Skies

Ever since I was a little girl, I used to love to look at the red sky, either in the morning or evening. Once, driving to Greeley with my Mother, I kept looking toward my left where the Rocky Mountains were silhouetted against a reddish-orange sky. My Mother said, "Keep your eyes on the road, stop looking at the sunset or we may never get to where we are going!" Many times, seeing the beautiful colors on the large sky canvas, tears would flow and I thanked God for allowing me to see such an extraordinary sight!

On vacations to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, I thought the sunsets were the most beautiful I had ever seen. How I loved to see the bright yellow sun sink below the horizon. Many vacations and many sunsets later, I still remember that special feeling I felt as the ocean turned a pinkish color along with the sky.

Lately, I am beginning to realize that Colorado has some pretty spectacular skies also. The year 2015, two days in a row, I saw a sky with many colors.

January 5, I opened my front door to see if the snow had melted from my driveway and what a surprise the sky gave me. It was as if God had stirred up the clouds with different colors.
 

January 6 around 5:20 p.m. I looked out my front door to see what the sky was doing and I was surprised to see the sky lit up in orange, lavender, with a tint of blue and grey.



The beautiful skies reminded me of a story about how someone searched and searched for something to make him happy. When he returned home he realized that home was where his happiness was found.

"When I admire the wonders of 
a sunset or the beauty of the
moon, my soul expands in the
worship of the Creator."
Mahatma Gandhi

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Fun Lunch and Beautiful Sunset

January 5, 2015 is a good day to remember. I met my thirteen year old granddaughter for lunch at Olive Garden Country Kitchen. The food was good and our conversation better.

Warm bread sticks, minestrone soup loaded with vegetables, crisp salad, egg plant Parmigiana and raspberry lemonade left no room for the delicious looking desserts like Tiramisu, cheesecake, lemon cream cake, black tie mousse cake, fried doughnut like bread dipped in chocolate called Zappoli, or Apple Tuscan Bread pudding.

We took some selfies and laughed at some of our weird expressions!
 
We talked about her new black and white puppy, Beans. We told each other what we did for Christmas. She told me about some of her friends and we remembered things we had done in the past. I told her about her cousins in California and how different Christmas seems to be in a warm place. It was a delightful lunch and then we went to J.C. Penny so she could shop for some clothes. While in California I had taken my two granddaughters shopping and I wanted to do the same for my Colorado granddaughter. We wandered through the store looking around until she found two t-shirts she liked. I told her how when she was little I could buy her what I liked and she would be happy. Now, she has her own tastes and needs to pick out her own choices. I saw many things I would have liked to see on her but she shook her head and said, "No grandma, that's not me."

Since I was away for Christmas and did not get to see her before the holidays, I gave her a Christmas gift with a note Do Not Open Until Christmas.  We were both tired after our shopping and we both said we would take a nap! After dropping her off at her home I got on the computer and found a Facebook message from her thanking  me for the day.

Later in the day, I opened my front door to see if the snow had melted from my driveway and was greeted by a beautiful sunset. Puffy pink/lavender/blue/grey clouds were puffy and colorful and I thanked God for letting me see such natural beauty. God is so good.

I could not have asked for a better day. Spending time with my granddaughter and then finishing the day with the gorgeous sunset.The day was perfect!


Monday, January 5, 2015

Downton Abbey Is Back

Masterpiece Theater on PBS has interesting stories all year long. I have gotten hooked on Downton Abbey, Doc Martin, The Paradise, Mr. Selfridge, and detective stories on Mystery Masterpiece. I enjoy watching old films whenever Channel 6 or 12 shows them.



Tonight, after what seemed like a long wait, I enjoyed watching Downton Abbey and my curiosity is at a peak trying to figure out what will happen to all the characters. I do not like the sleaze ball, Thomas Barrows, who just when I think his evilness has been found out, he does something heroic that keeps him in the good graces of the Crawley family.

I have formed opinions on the characters in the story and some I like better than others. Mrs. Hughes is one of my favorites by her sensible way of being, her humorous ways and her kindness. I love how she keeps Mr. Carson, the traditional butler, in line!

Lady Violet, played by Maggie Smith, plays her part as the dowager very well and her comments and facial expressions are priceless. I am glad that the trouble maker Sarah O'Brien is gone. I feel sorry for Molesley who seems to be at odds with life. A favorite character is John Bates with his love for Anna and his deep, dark secrets!

Daisy seems so helpless and I hope she ends up with William Mason who is now a chef in London. Mrs. Patmore, the overworked cook comes across with some good lines. Lady Edith is probably the most unfortunate in her love affairs and I feel sorry for her. She seems to suffer a lot! Isobel is a more modern thinker and I am hoping she and the doctor end up together.

Lady Mary frustrates me because it takes her forever to make up her mind! Rose is a young, impetuous young, spoiled socialite who causes embarrassment to the Crawleys. The young school teacher who may be more modern than the Crawleys, I found to be very pushy and rude and find myself not liking her. Hope she does not end up with Tom Branson, because I like him.

The Americans who poke fun at the British life style are always fun to see. Last night, Shirley MacLaine was joined by Paul Giamatti for an interesting exchange of ideas. The rest of the characters are necessary for the story and now I will wait to see how Downton Abbey will turn out. I enjoy the period dress for both men and women, the different lifestyle for the elite and the help, and all the underhanded maneuvering that goes on at Downton Abbey!

Every Sunday I will be glued to the television to see the continuation of one of my favorite stories on PBS.

Sunday, January 4, 2015

Living and Dying

The year was 2006 and the annual pilgrimage to the Santuario de Chimayo would be extra special because a Fifty Year Wedding Anniversary would be celebrated on the trip. I contacted Fr. Lawrence Kaiser to be our priest for the journey and a guitarist to go with us also.

The first stop were the Stations of the Cross in San Luis, Colorado where we ate lunch at the parish center and then hiked up the mountain while praying the stations. The prayers were in English and Spanish and so was the music.


After leaving San Luis we arrived in Taos, New Mexico at the Kachina Lodge where a reception with wine and hors d'oeuvres was planned for Rudy and Mary Lopez, the two persons celebrating their anniversary. They were serenaded by the guitar player who sang beautiful love songs to them.

Rudy entertained us by telling us stories about their relationship and his family. I remember reading a poem about marriage. We spend a fun time at the reception before going in to the dining room for our dinner. After dinner we enjoyed watching the Native Americans dance typical tribal dances. At one point, we joined in the dancing!


The next morning we traveled to Chimayo where Fr. Kaiser celebrated the beautiful anniversary
mass in the quaint chapel with the colorful altar screens. Many family members joined the holy mass and Mary received a bouquet of red roses.  We ate a delicious lunch at The Ranchos de Chimyo before continuing to Santa Fe for the rest of the pilgrimage.

We enjoyed the Fiestas of Santa Fe, mass at the Cathedral and then a fabulous lunch at the world famous La Fonda Restaurant.

All of the pilgrimages to Chimayo are special but this one was extra special because of the celebration of fifty years of marriage for Rudy and Mary! 


Eight years later, on January 2, 2015, a funeral mass was celebrated for Joe (Rudy) Lopez at Holy Trinity Catholic Church and at his mass I found out the Fr. Lawrence Kaiser had passed away two days before Joe. Makes one think about leading a good life because we never know when we will be called to meet our maker!

Saturday, January 3, 2015

Fancy Caskets and Scary Masks


Wandering through the Bowers
Museum we saw these caskets which I thought were very fancy. These were made for royalty of the era. Not sure if these were for Chinese, Japanese or some other
group. Which goes to show that all the explanations about the display should be read! And if read, remembered.





Entering the Spirits and Headhunters: Art of the Pacific Islands made me realize that I certainly would not like to be in these mysterious and dangerous looking islands depicted by Photographer Chris Rainier.


In this area I saw large masks, sea shell necklaces, teeth, feather, and weapon artifacts. An interesting display of how head hunters lived in the past and what they used for decorations. The human teeth necklace made me wonder if the teeth were removed before or after death!

 Though this area was fascinating to see, I found it to be on the violent side
and not my favorite type of museum art!







My daughter and I had to chuckle with the form on the left....she told me the explanation was: "I Gotta Go Right Now!"

On my visits to California, I enjoy going to the Bowers Museum because it is not so large to be overwhelming and the displays are presented in an interesting way. I also like that they allow photographs to be taken in certain areas!

"I Am Watching You From Heaven!"

On January 2, 2015, I attended a funeral mass for a friend of mine at Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Westminster, Colorado. His name is Joe Lopez but I knew him as Rudy. He and his wife had traveled to New Mexico and the Santuario de Chimayo with me for ten consecutive years. Eight years ago, on our last trip together, they celebrated their 50th Wedding Anniversary. Today I was told that the priest, Fr. Lawrence Kaiser, who celebrated the mass in Chimayo for them, had passed away two days before Joe. This picture of my friend, is how I remember him. Full of mischievous fun yet kind and loving to all he met.


As I entered the church I could hear Mexican music in the background. I noticed many of the young men wore suspenders in honor of their grandfather who always wore suspenders! The large church slowly filled up with over 225 persons. My friend had many friends who had come to see him continue his journey on his way to heaven. Never had I been to a mass completely dedicated to the deceased. A
granddaughter read a poem in English and Spanish about her love for her grandfather. A son read a poem about how his father was a hero to him. One daughter read a special reading that reminded her of her Dad and Deacon Ross led the rosary. Another granddaughter spoke on seeing a vision of Mother Teresa that made her realize she needed to allow her grandfather to leave this earth and to stop trying to make him better. The music was beautiful and when Wind Below My Wings was sung I don't believe there was a dry eye in the church.


Father John and Father Rick seemed to know my friend intimately and everything they said about him I had to agree with their comments. The homily, by Fr. Rick, was so right on; spiritual, happy, and funny. Fr. Rick said, "Joe had a knack of making priests feel as if they were his favorite priest." Fr. Rick looked over at Fr. John and said, "Wouldn't you agree?" Fr. John's response was, "I was his favorite!" Which made the congregation laugh through their tears. Stories about Joe's life were interesting and full of love. Like when he drove a cab and a young girl was in trouble and came running to his cab. He did not think that he might be in danger when he picked her up and took her to her home. When her parents tried to pay him, he would not accept money because he was happy to have helped someone in need. Mention was made of the large rosaries that Joe made and gave to his friends. I felt honored that he had given me one of his large rosaries. The priest mentioned that he felt as if Joe was like a father figure to many of the priests. Joe had a generous heart with his time, money and hands, we were told. Joe suffered but it never got him down, instead it brought him closer to God and the Blessed Virgin. Losing a daughter was difficult for Joe and his wife and taking care of a handicapped son could not have been easy, but their faith saw them through many troubles.


The reception was wonderful because we got to speak to the family and to let them know how much Rudy was loved. Somehow, I had a feeling that even if he wasn't physically present with us he continued to evangelize.  I am sure, Rudy is looking down at us and thinking, "God watch over my family and friends."



Friday, January 2, 2015

A South African Idol

A few years ago, I saw a documentary about a guitar player who never made it in the United States, yet he was a huge success in South Africa. The interesting fact was that the singer never knew he was popular in South Africa and when his albums did not do well in the States in the 1970's, he just stopped performing.  Through Netflix I saw a movie (documentary) called Searching for Sugar Man about the singer, and decided to order it. Flabbergasted does not cover how I felt when I saw the one hour and twenty six minute movie.

The story begins in South Africa where the singer was more popular than Elvis Presley. In every home in South Africa one could find a copy of the album by Sixto Rodriguez. I found it interesting that my grandfather's name was Sisto (sometimes spelled Sixto) and my father's name was Rodriguez. This spurred me on to find out more about the singer who, some said, was just as good as Bob Dylan, if not better.

Record label owners in the U.S. and others who had heard him sing believed Rodriguez would make it big, but it never happened. He disappeared and it was rumored that he had played his last song and shot himself or that he had set himself on fire on stage and was dead. Luckily, a couple of his fans continued digging into the mysterious disappearance of Rodriguez.

Ads were placed in newspapers and on the Internet and one day a young woman claiming to be Rodriguez' daughter called the investigator. "My father is not dead," she said, "he is alive and well and lives in Detroit, Michigan." Once it was verified that Rodriguez was around, that he sometimes played in clubs and that he had no idea how popular he was in South Africa, it was arranged for him to travel to South Africa for a live concert. Arriving in South Africa in 1998 he was treated as a famous star with paparazzi surrounding him, limos waiting to drive him around and five separate concerts were filled to capacity to listen to him sing. He was surprised to see that many in the audience knew his songs and were singing along with him!

He has a gravelly sort of voice, he writes and sings about life as he knew it, about the depressed conditions in Detroit and the United States and many of his songs are quite sad yet tell a story.  I liked his music and will
try to find a CD of his through Amazon. His daughters talk lovingly about their father and how he continues being a blue collar laborer in construction. They talk about when he ran for mayor and lost, how he wants to right many wrongs he sees, how he is a bit of an activist and how he has always been a good provider for his family. He is not a handsome man, wears sunglasses, has long hair and when asked questions he appears to be shy, yet on stage he is transformed into a great star.

On the Netflix envelope I read: "The incredible true story of Rodriguez, the greatest '70's rock icon who never was. Decades after Detroit singer-songwriter Rodriguez disappeared following the failure of his two critically praised records in the 1970's, two fans from South Africa, where Rodriguez was a huge hit, try to track down their idol."  I would recommend seeing Searching for Sugar Man. An interesting story and I wonder if he never made it in the United States because his name was Rodriguez.


Just a song we shared, I'll hear
brings back memories when you were here,
of your smile, your easy laughter
of your kiss, those moments after. 
The beginning of the song
I Think of You
by Sixto Rodriguez.