When I heard the story of a friend and what her life was like, I was amazed and surprised that she graduated today from Regis University with a Masters Degree. Hearing that at one time she was married, lived with an abusive husband, got divorced, raised a family, had grandchildren, worked as a teacher while attending night school and taking on-line classes, made me realize that this had not been an easy road for her. At fifty-six years old, I understood what a struggle she must have gone through to obtain her degree. Today the past was a memory and she focused on celebrating with family and friends. The house and patio had children, teens, young adults, older folks, relatives and friends enjoying each others company and the good food. I know her because I am her mother's friend. Her father passed away in December, 2014, but I notice he is always in their thoughts. I heard him mentioned many times. "Dad would have been so proud, Dad is watching you from heaven, Dad is always with you, and I know Dad walked up with me to get my degree," were comments I heard.
She introduced me to her science middle school teacher and I found out that he had taught all of the siblings and they all had memories of their time in Junior high school. One remembered being the good student, one remembered being in the Principal's office a lot, and they all teased that they were the "most loved." I felt a pang of sadness that I never kept in touch with any of my teachers.
It was a fun party that a brief rain storm could not diminish. Her dog, Goldie, went around greeting new arrivals. I enjoyed my time at the party and send my congratulations to Bernie Lopez on her great accomplishment. When I asked her if she would go on for her doctorate she said, "No, now is the time to enjoy my mother and spend more time with
my family."
How awesome my cake made it on you post! I should have used a prettier board! Also congrats to my beautiful Aunt for being such an inspiration to all, she is my hero and I hope one day to be just like her! My Grandpa left a strong foot print of love that we all cherish every day; nothing can dim the light that shines from within.
ReplyDeleteWell said Jessica. I knew your grandfather because he and your grandmother went on 10 different pilgrimages to Chimayo, New Mexico with me. He made those trips fun and entertaining. On the last trip we took together we celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. I have many sweet memories.
ReplyDeleteAmazing! hats-off to her. She raised her family all alone and also got a degree for herself, I am so proud of her, better late than never! We are also throwing a small party for my aunt in one of the Chicago event venues because she also graduated now. Though she is not as old as her, she had some issues at her time as well.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to your aunt!
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